Family Stress is Manageable with Effective Communication.
Video on Dealing with Family Stress
This video about family stress gives an illustration of how a parent manages the stress of dealing with a child who has begun to skip school.
The child feels that her reasons for skipping are valid and that her mother just doesn't understand what she is going through. This is a common theme with stress in families - communication breakdown.
At first the mother is frustrated and gets upset, but then she takes a deep breath and rather than power tripping and using unreasonable anger, she chooses to gather more information and listen to the child.
In doing so, she sees that the problem is bigger than first understood and she is able to intervene to help the child; thereby avoiding unnecessary failure.
How Do You Deal with Family Problems?
How do you deal with family related stress? Do you jump to conclusions and get upset or do you listen and investigate before reacting?
For many of us, being responsive instead of reactive is very difficult. We are already stressed out and we just don't need one more headache. We feel resentful that a member of the family is causing us even more family problems.
Unfortunately, the stress does not disappear without help, just like Juliana's math problems. In fact, allowing parenting stress to go on and on can do quite a bit of damage to us, physically.
Not only does the problem grow worse, but repeated use of this parenting style causes the body to produce many free radicals because the body is kept in a state of acute and chronic stress.
The next thing you know, the free radicals have begun to do damage called oxidative stress and oxidative stress is now known to be the leading cause of more than 200 chronic degenerative diseases.
Once you have dealt with the strong emotions, you will be far better able to move towards understanding the problem, so you can break it down and solve it.
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SO, WHAT'S THESTORY ON STRESS?
STRESS is out of control! In fact, life is out of control! Effective stress management and problem solving skills may be the only thing that will keep your head above water in the next decade. It really is becoming quite serious and so should be taken very seriously. What is your plan for the next decade? Or, will you let stress win?
Maybe you thought life was crazy in the first decade of the 21st century. Unfortunately, it's only going to get worse. Experts predict 10 years of economic devastation before things improve. A whole bunch of economic factors are coming together all at the same time and the results of this trend will not be for the weak-hearted.
Your stress management skills and life coping skills may well be a key factor in deciding who wins and who loses. And, I don’t mean the lottery! I am talking about health & wellness. Poor stress management leads to serious illness.
In the past 30 years, chronic degenerative disease (CDD) has been on the rise. Cancer, Heart Disease, Diabetes, Asthma, Arthritis, Fibromyalgia, Chrohn’s and Depression are just a few of the 200+ chronic degenerative diseases that experts say are directly caused by stress. We are fighting for our lives. How much more stress can any of us really take?
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